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Saturday, 19 February 2011

Day 26: How do you handle/deal with both success and failure?

Okay, now we're talking about coping mechanisms. Lemme discuss about how I handle success first.

Success

Bask in the glory while silently praying a thanksgiving to God.
Think of other stuffs to continue from where we stop and pray for more success.
Rest because I've earned it!
Share the joy with my love ones.
Rub it onto the faces of people who were sceptical and those sour grapes (okay, I do this only if they really get into my nerves).

Defeat/ Failure
 Congratulate the winner as sincere as possible (this is the tough part but I really have to do it cos I believe in karma).
Think about the stuff that can be improved or revamped.
Or it can't be fixed or improved, move on. This usually takes time because sometimes failure can be very sentimental for me.
Bitch about it to my close friends (this is for extreme cases of me being the sour grape).

I'm sure everyone have their times of success and failure. I guess we all know that if you get success, jan terlampau temberang and if you fail, don't take it too personally. After all, both has its own lessons for us...we just have to learn to cope with them positively.
Bah, tu seja.

Selamat Hari Sabtu! ^__^

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