Day 26: How do you handle/deal with both success and failure?

Okay, now we're talking about coping mechanisms. Lemme discuss about how I handle success first.

Success

Bask in the glory while silently praying a thanksgiving to God.
Think of other stuffs to continue from where we stop and pray for more success.
Rest because I've earned it!
Share the joy with my love ones.
Rub it onto the faces of people who were sceptical and those sour grapes (okay, I do this only if they really get into my nerves).

Defeat/ Failure

 Congratulate the winner as sincere as possible (this is the tough part but I really have to do it cos I believe in karma).
Think about the stuff that can be improved or revamped.
Or it can't be fixed or improved, move on. This usually takes time because sometimes failure can be very sentimental for me.
Bitch about it to my close friends (this is for extreme cases of me being the sour grape).

I'm sure everyone have their times of success and failure. I guess we all know that if you get success, jan terlampau temberang and if you fail, don't take it too personally. After all, both has its own lessons for us...we just have to learn to cope with them positively.

Bah, tu seja.

Selamat Hari Sabtu! ^__^

Day 25: Discuss something you planned that ended up not being what you expected

Hmm...for this topic, I think one of my plans which ended up not being what I expected is when I planned for the Bali trip last year.

I was already looking forward for that trip and been telling my friends how excited I was about the trip. I've researched tonnes of websites on Bali and even thought of what to wear, what to do when I get there, etc, etc.

I've paid for the trip in full and all I have to do was wait for the date.

However, a month before the trip I was called that the trip was cancelled.

There goes my excitement...I had already visualised myself basking under the heat of Bali's sun and in awe of its historical beauty. But it was destined not to happen.

Luckily I got my money back, all of it in fact. Thank God for that.

So, when the time for my supposed departure to Bali came, I realised my handphone was so quiet. It turned out that all of my friends thought that I was in Bali already. Cheh..punyalah...kurengs betul tu trip kena cancel.

So, that's all about that. :P