My Dream Guy...

I am writing this post as a response from a friend's challenge. We were poking fun with each other and she said I should list down the characteristics and qualities of my ideal guy...I thought it would be fun, so here it is...

1. He is wise

Money-wise, knowledge-wise, etc basically this guy should be wiser and responsible. It helps if he has a degree or higher than that because I believe that the guy should be wiser than me in other aspects so we can complement each other...

2. He is employed

Yes, he must have a job. Enough said.

3. He is loyal and caring

To me being loyal and caring is important, I really like these qualities in my boyfriend

4. He is a good listener

I love a guy who would listen but then again this creature is quite rare...

5. He is protective not possessive

I've dated and had casual flings with several guys who are protective AND possessive. Their possessiveness started off quite flattering to me, however after several dates (or two dates the most) it started to bug me. Hey, I like you but you turn me off with your penchant of possessiveness dressed as protectiveness. I like the way some men would hold the small of my back or my shoulders guiding me to cross the roads, but maybe before we say COMMIT, let's just stick with the hands' holding, kay?

6. He encourages my dreams...and pursue his as well

When a guy has ambition and passion, I find his level of sexiness and attractiveness increase to the MAXXXX! Now, I watched once in Oprah about finding a soulmate...the speaker (i forgot her name) said that your soulmate made you to be better than you are - in other words, the said man helps you be a better person. Being an occasional pessimist, I'd love my guy to encourage me to pursue my dreams and shares his with me.

Well, that's the 6 traits of an ideal guy for me. If this guy exist, wow...i'll be the luckiest girl in the world. If he doesn't, i guess that's reality. But whatever comes or may be...i'll keep my eyes open for him.