A Reflection on Friendship
Lately I have been surrounded by the blues in friendship.
Well, I don't know if it's just me or is the universe trying to tell me something?
Have I been a good friend myself?
I think I am loyal when it comes to friendship. I can be completely generous and caring with my friends, sometimes even more than my own relatives. But lately I felt as if my energy and resources have been sucked out by some of these "friendnemies". I thought I have learned my lessons, I wondered why I kept on forgetting the faults that these "friendnemies" had done to me? I'm sure I have given all my best because I know, once you are my friend, I am loyal all over.
Perhaps now the fault is on me.
I have been totally too loyal and too trusting.
I guess everyone had to face the music.
Well, I'm still going to be a good and loyal friend. But this time, I'm going to trust that tingling feeling down my gut.
I have to swallow the bitter truth :
True friends are hard to find in this material world.
Well, I don't know if it's just me or is the universe trying to tell me something?
Have I been a good friend myself?
I think I am loyal when it comes to friendship. I can be completely generous and caring with my friends, sometimes even more than my own relatives. But lately I felt as if my energy and resources have been sucked out by some of these "friendnemies". I thought I have learned my lessons, I wondered why I kept on forgetting the faults that these "friendnemies" had done to me? I'm sure I have given all my best because I know, once you are my friend, I am loyal all over.
Perhaps now the fault is on me.
I have been totally too loyal and too trusting.
I guess everyone had to face the music.
Well, I'm still going to be a good and loyal friend. But this time, I'm going to trust that tingling feeling down my gut.
I have to swallow the bitter truth :
True friends are hard to find in this material world.
5 comments:
well...talking about friends,i think its better not to cling to a friendship.when one friendship ended,you just move on and find another.you may thought this is unfeeling but with time,you understood.as we go through life,even old friends can turned out to be a farce and vice versa - old acquaintances become good friends.my philosophy towards friendship is very simple.when i make a new friend,i'll put my heart into it.treasure each moment i have with this friend.when the friendship ends,either due to fading out or death,at least i know i have done my best and what i have is a page of that encounter in the book of my life.that is all i can do..
yes u are! And m still ur friend ryte???:-)OR am i not in ur list hahahaha
my pleasure,..CyntaSez. you have a nice weekend,good night ...zzzz
i knoe you r a loyal friend, pare.. and how lucky i am God gave me a chance to know you.. and i will remember & cherish our friendship forever-reverness *aisehmen* tapi betul bah ni sa cakap.. iklas..
my personal advice is just be yourself.. do whatever your heart wants you to do.. do not change the way you used to be just because of these 'friendnemies'.
pare.. i is love you.. i is hugg you..
jan lagi tingu belakang pare, tingu di depan ja.. ;) life goes on.. hehe.. cheers pare!
Ah Ngao : Yup, I agree with ur opinion. Reality requires a person to move on in friendship. Thanks for the sharing ;-)
Getz : Yes my favourite Simba!! You are always in my true friends' list :-)
Pare Annie : Woahhh I is the LOVE u too pare!! *huggies* ya, sia moving on suda ni..kasi tinggal suda tu friendnemies yang mengaku kawan time2 senang. U is one of my closest, dearest friend and thank u for always being a true friend :-)
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